Frequently Asked Questions

Blue - Male
 

Pink - Female

Q.1 How do I keep informed of when the next party is on?
A. Please write to my GMX email address, which is given in the 'Contact' section and give your first and second names (or assumed names if you prefer). I will then add you to the mailing list for all future parties and an email will then be sent to you roughly 3 weeks before the next party is held, so that you are not missed out. The next party will be listed under, 'Next Party Girl' and the date and time given, along with an announcement on the Homepage.

Q.2 I would like to attend. What happens now?
A. Please read what is written under the 'How To Attend' tab. When the date of the next party has been announced on the Homepage, and you are sure you would like to participate, please write and ask me to send you the 'Bank Transfer' email sheet, which explains payment. I used to use a PO Box, but not any more. When I receive payment, I acknowledge this and I send out an email 'Information Sheet' with all further details you need for the night, such as road directions, bed and breakfast/hotel, where to park etc. It may sound involved, but works well to cut down on the timewasters of which there are numerous.

Q.3 How do I know you are genuine?
A. Its a fair question to ask, considering the scams online, and I have to ask the same thing of those who write to me too. But, if you read every page here, you'll find a lot that cross references, as do the Blogs, Guest Book and Feedback entries. I used to have a webpage in the 'Adultwork' website, where I first started, and t
he comments left by others are all genuine and hard won over many months of work and previous parties, and can only be left there AFTER the party. The Blogs and 'Club Ethos' should also let you know that I'm honest and contain insights into my character, though you have to make the effort to read them. I use my real name (something many of those who contact me, do not!), I show my face in photographs and I give my mobile number when you ask for the payment sheet. I show the previous parties as much as possible and photographs of the venue were also provided (when we met at the country mansion). Finally, I am not asking for your money for anything other than the party, and I do not charge for any part of this website nor ever will. You will have to use your own judgement after consideration of all that you read here and your dealings with me. 

Q.4 Why do you not take payments using PayPal?
A. From what I have been told, PayPal does not endorse anything to do with 'adult services' and I think could freeze the account. I have enough hassle putting these on already without that and they'd view this as 'prostitution' or some such. I don't want to risk being labelled as something I'm not. i.e. I am not a pimp, I do not run a brothel and its an occasional amateur club where friends can meet, not a business.

Q.5 Why do you only have one girl at your parties?!
A. For a variety of reasons.
1
. This club is for fans of traditional gangbangs and girls that like them. One girl with a group of guys is a true gangbang. 2, 3 or 4 girls is technically an orgy or a swinger party, and very commonly found elsewhere.
2. I put on bespoke parties just for that particular girl. Her likes and dislikes are listed in the invitation and that saves any confusion trying to work out which girl likes anal or which does creampies etc., if you have two or more.
3.Two girls, would mean the entry fee would have to double, to pay each of them. This immediately halves the numbers of guys who would come along, making it even more difficult for me to fill the places and meet their costs. I would then be paying to hold my own party at which I do not join in, and making a loss. Unworkable. 
4. With more girls you need more space to hold it and then the focus of attention is diluted. This is especially true if trying to film the event ~ you end up missing half the action unless you have lots of cameras, which then becomes a film shoot not an intimate party.
5
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Not all girls are bi-sexual and would want another girl in the room with them and some want all the men to themselves; and if they ARE bi, then you have some of your time and money wasted by them playing with each other, and not with you!
6
. The more attractive girl receives more attention, leaving the other realising where she stands with the opposite sex and feeling inferior, and that's not something condusive to good feelings at a party.
7. One girl is a private party. With more girls it can be considered a commercial operation, the house a brothel, me a pimp and the girls classified as my whores. Not something I subscribe to and nothing like the reality here.

Q.6 May I arrive any time between the beginning and end of the party?
A. Yes, as staggered times suit the evening better, but please do not arrive before the given time. At the previous venue, groups were met at a location in the High Street and escorted into the estate during the first hour by a helper, who then went home. However, at this venue, it would actually be more advantageous for people to arrive under their own steam during the evening, rather than as a big group so there is not so much waiting. When you come much later you will find fewer there, but if you are going to be very late, please call to inform me, though you will not be offered half price I'm afraid, you just lose time with the girl. 


Q.7 Can I just ring and come on the day?
A. No. Last minute decisions by you are no help to me in putting the event on. At this new venue, I ask that you pre-book, to attend. 'Pay on the Day' parties are notorious for failing and I would have no idea how many are coming. It could be 3 or 53. I would hope that my parties are something people look forward to and are worth keeping a place free in the diary for. Please book your place with me in advance, just as you would for other events ~ music/sports/theatre. 

Q.8 May I bring a friend/friends?
A.
Yes and no. You are welcome to come along with a friend or introduce them to the club, but they have to be on the mailing list, pre-book and pre-pay as individuals in their own right. They cannot just come with you and pay on the door. I have to know in advance who is attending and who is on the guest list. Sorry.


Q.9 I do not have a car, how do I reach you?
A. Full public transport details are explained in detail in the 'Information Sheet' (emailed after payment for the party is received) if this applies to you. It would be near to a Northwest London Underground station, then within walking distance from there. For London Tube map, see 'Gallery'.

Q.10 What if I can't 'perform', do I get my money back? / I am new to this.
A. There is a first time for everything of course, so if you're new to the gangbang scenario, don't worry, there is no pressure on you to do anything. If you just want to watch (which some do), have a drink and enjoy the spectacle, that's fine. Its a social club with a girl who will have sex with you, rather than a porn film shoot and no one is rating the size of your cock or whether you've got a gym membership. You should always get a bj and swallow with every girl I book, so make sure you get one before the party closes. You do not have to fully undress, though its a bit like being the only one clothed on the nudist beach, so you could feel more uneasy if you stay dressed. On these occasions, the girl isn't looking at the size of your cock, and from experience, they just want your cock hard and a good lot of cum.

Q.11 I am Chinese/Black/Asian/Native American/Maori/Inuit/Sasquatch, etc. can I still come? / I am (insert age) does this matter?
A. This club is open to all religions, races and ages. So long as you are under 80 and over 18, that's all that matters to me as I do not discriminate. The girls sometimes have personal preferences, which I have to respect. That is one of many reasons why each party is different.

Q.12
Do I always have to wear a condom?
A. This is entirely dependant upon what each girl prefers. My parties are usually condoms only (please bring your own), but if the girl is happy to do bareback, I will say so in the announcement for the party. Bareback does not necessarily mean 'creampie', but usually so. The final party at the mansion was bareback/creampies, but I noticed that a good half of the guys still wore condoms which is admirable, so that is probably classed as 'condoms optional'. I can relate to not liking wearing them, though girls think you are being irresponsible if you request sex without. But they do reduce sensation; you feel little heat or wetness and without those factors it can be harder to cum, so the whole exercise can feel pointless. With more guys at a time, the rubber friction rub from condoms can make her sore, so use lube - she usually brings her own preferred choice. I would always advise you get yourself tested regularly - and you may wish to include Hepatitis too, when you do. Please see Pink Q.3 below, for further information on this subject.  

Q.13
How many men attend the parties?
A. Usually around 20, though the most has been 30 at the final party in the old mansion, held in January 2011 with Alexa Andreas the porn star who was happy to have 60. I try to book girls who do not have an upper limit as this makes it much easier to put on, but each party is different and depends upon many factors. I do chat to girls who are happy to have many more men though, up to 60 or so, as with the Czech gangbang club. With more men, I stagger arrival times.

Q.14 You do not hold many parties. Why is this?
A.
The minor miracle is that ANY happen at all! But mostly because there aren't that many reliable girls who do this and much of my time is taken up with timewasters - my system heads off the timewasting men. Also because of the sheer amount of time it takes to arrange them (approx. 3 weeks and 1000 emails), plus I believe in quality and not quantity. I have to be excited enough about each girl and event to put it on, because if I'm not enthused about her, it doesn't happen. I do not run this club on a commercial scale, but as a fan. This also means that the club should survive for many years, rather than trying to hold a party each month, failing, getting into financial problems and then closing down forevermore. Very few of the girls actually take up the invitations I send out, and virtually no escort agencies let their girls come to this sort of party. I am extremely choosy about who I will have along too and I don't invite the tubby mumsies who you normally find. Some talk themselves out of it after agreeing yes, even though it is a very common fantasy and something they want to do. Sometimes it is the distance between their location and London or often what they tell me late in the evening after a few glasses of wine is then not the same story when they are sober or reached a different time in their cycle. Sadly they still believe it to be something unsafe, despite reassurances to the contrary. I also do not send invitations to swinging couples, as this is not a swingers club. From previous experience with swinging couples, there is nothing in it for me. They come, do the party, take the money and leave me out of pocket, having to clear up the mess the next day and not getting any sex as they leave when the guys do. Also I do not have single mums along (phone calls to babysitters halfway through, plus I feel a certain responsibility for their child, should mum get an STi) nor will I invite any girl that I have not met first.


Q.15 I am of a certain age, will I need Viagra? 
A.
Only you can know the answer to this but I suggest you discuss this with your doctor and be aware of any side effects or how it might affect you. Please don't take the first one you try, before attending a party, but whilst you are at home with familiar surroundings rather than having a heart seizure in the car or during the party! 

Q.16 May I take photographs? Do you film the parties? Will I find myself on the Internet?!
A.
Photographs - Usually the girl asks that photographs are not taken, though I fortunately have a record of Danni's party as she gave permission. You are not therefore allowed to bring your mobile into the party room. Please leave them with your coat and shoes. A club cameraman is on hand, if the girl should allow it.
Filming -  No party at the mansion was ever filmed.  This is also so that people actually come to the parties, in real live time in reality, rather than hoping to view them later in isolation from their armchair in cyberspace. Part of the thrust of the club is to get single people together, to meet, socialise and network so that something else good comes from the evening. I do not allow recordings by party goers, there is no secret recording done or CCTV either. If a party is to be filmed, it would be by the official club photographer, purely for the person who asks for it to be shot - perhaps for her website if she is a porn star, or for a couple; never for commercial distribution. I would make it clear on the invitation that it would be filmed and you can decide whether to attend or not, or wear a mask that time. Usually the lighting is far too low at my parties (candles) for filmwork, so it would be the exception, and extra lighting would need to be used. You would be filmed from the torso downwards as viewers want to see the girl's face, not yours. Update: Based on previous occasions, though I am the host, I don't get to see anything very much due to so many demands on my time and often not being in the party room while I greet guests. Therefore I may ask the club photographer to film it just for me, so I can see my own party afterwards! I have neither the time or inclination to broadcast these or make money from them. If I have a change of mind over this, more time and more technical understanding of content sharing, I may do this at some future time at a bigger venue. This would be announced properly on the website and/or invitation, and would start from that point. Previous party material would not be made available to view, retrospectively. I take my position of trust very seriously, as is demonstrated by sending out Blind Copies when I email you guys and removing photographs of party girls from the 'Previous Party Girl' tab in the 'Picture Gallery', who do not wish them to still be displayed, after the party date has come and gone. 

Q.17
Do you run a brothel? Are you a 'pimp'? 

A.
No. You'll find me a world away from that sort. A pimp has either one girl or a variety of girls all working for him making him money. This isn't my job, I don't have girls under my control and though some of the girls are escorts, they come from an agency that I have no connections with. I hold a few parties each year for friends, with 1 girl who voluntarily comes to my house as my guest and my friend, and who then leaves the next day. I don't see them again; unless they ask to return for a second party. It would be easier to have regular girls doing this for me, but I try to find someone new each time. I also try to get to know the girls first as people and human beings not sex objects, if they are amateur. As for money, previous parties have seen me out of pocket!

Q.1 Am I the only girl there?
A. Yes. Please see blue question # 5.

Q.2 I won't be safe/I'm frightened of being raped/I'm too scared to try a gangbang/They will think I'm a slut and won't respect me.
A. This is both amusing and saddening to me as it shows the vast gulf still between men and women and how women expect men to be, once naked. The party is a civilised evening, the men remain gentlemen, and don't turn into raging drooling beasts once clothes are absent. For a real transformation, most people grow horns behind the wheel of a car which is much worse, whereas here they just grow horny ~ though sometimes not enough, especially if they've never attended before and they're likely to be as nervous as yourself. Probably more so, because to be in a room with other naked heterosexual men you don't know, is not something that happens too often in life and takes a bit of courage and self confidence! In which case, you'll have to give a helping hand as its quite obvious with a man if he's not turned on yet, whereas you girls can fuck still even if you're not. Half the men won't know each other and so they're strangers to each other and its awkward at first, and the other half are my friends and therefore still well behaved. As well as my extensive pre-booking and pre-pay system which keeps away idiots, there is someone on the door and I've never had a problem with any guy who has been along. No one can just walk in off the street! Should anyone step out of line they would be warned, plus there's a room full of men who would protect you without you even having to ask, so you couldn't be safer! They won't think of you as a slut, but as a fun party girl and respected because you ARE there ~ not many girls can do it so you are very much appreciated! You're all there for the same reason. I suspect 'gang rape' is being confused with 'gang bang' and has nothing to do with this. Also, this is England and we're polite and reserved - even more so when naked, as there is nowhere to hide. Pleasingly I've noticed over the years that races and religions seem to get on better and are more respectful of differences and more humble when stripped of our garb. Perhaps we all ought to wish for a future with no clothes!

Q.3 Are the men who attend going to be overweight, ugly, old and can't get laid? / Am I going to catch something?
A. Wrong. Completely wrong! Although this club IS fully inclusive and open to men of all ages, religions, races and backgrounds, I have found that the way I structure them (no phone calls, but writing to me first to get onto the club database, then the invitations, then pre-booking and pre-payment to get onto the guest list)
plus the amount they have to read and process here and when they've paid, means that the gentlemen attending are organised, reliable, good fun, clean, well dressed, honest and polite people, often too busy with their work or own business to have the time for regular dating. I now know many of them personally and count them as good friends. Also, those two questions above in pink, cancel each other out. If a man is very handsome, he gets a lot of sex. If he is not, he doesn't. Therefore, as I don't have along married men, and guys who can have any girl don't generally come, you're very safe knowing that if the man fucking you is average looking/balding/smaller cock/cums prematurely etc. then they are far LESS likely to have anything as they get less sex. The age range is mostly between 20 and 50 but some are older and often just like to watch, though don't be caught out by age as some take Viagra and will give you a far better seeing to! They are often JUST fans of gangbangs and being single, are not likely to be attending swinger clubs, and there are very few other gangbang clubs around for them to go along to. So they are not sleeping with as many people as you imagine and from my many conversations online with women, the guys actually have FAR less sex than you do. The men are often more worried about catching something from the girl - though I do choose very carefully - and many will still wear condoms even if it is optional, though mostly they are condom parties. Members are also asked to arrive having showered, shaved, cleaned their teeth, trimmed down pubic hair and that their fingernails are also trimmed and filed smooth. This is what I would hope for if I was a woman attending, with strangers hands on my private parts! The options for you are condoms only, bareback but not creampies, and creampies. Guys can tell when they are coming, so bareback does not automatically mean a creampie. There is a lot of pressure on the guys to get an erection and perform, in front of not just strangers, but other naked heterosexual men in close proximity. It takes a lot of thought, effort and consideration on their part to attend because of how I structure admittance, and I do not believe it is possible to pay up, come along and stand there naked, trying to achieve an erection with self confidence, if they have something. The amount of mental peer pressure at a gangbang can prevent an erection even for a fit healthy man. I ask that they voluntarily are tested and do not attend even if they have a cold. I supply antibacterial soap and antiviral hand gel in the bathroom and ask that those using public transport use antiviral wipes on arrival. I do not want anything (such as norovirus/vomiting bug) left in my house on bathroom taps either, so using my house as the venue, is also a safeguard to your health. I do my level best to insure your safety in all areas but ultimately the decisions are yours.

Q.4 Do you join in during the party?
A.
I am asked this question more than any other for some reason. I'm the organiser and overseer, and a bit like a ringmaster I don't participate, just make sure the show goes as planned for you. I have many things to do during the evening, such as answering the phone and texts and checking people off on the guest list, taking coats, umbrellas and shoes, doing the music, lighting candles or checking they're not burning out or burning anything down, lighting incense, letting people out when they want to leave, chatting to guests and previously I was also doing food and drink. To ease my workload now, there is only food and drink for you, and the food is post party. If you (and I! lol) have the energy after the party when we've eaten, then certainly we can have some fun together ; ) I did get undressed at the first party, start to join in and then got a text from someone asking me to meet them in the high street as they were lost. I could hardly rush down the stairs, through the grounds and out into the road, naked, so I realised early on that I must not be caught in a compromising situation (should a neighbour come to the door) and was there to make sure everyone else had a good time. I have succeeded in making the evening work for us all, if all you have to concern yourself with is the guys and having fun.

Q.5 I've never done a gangbang before/I won't be any good/I'd need to be drunk/on drugs to go through with it.
A. You'll be fine, as its the men who are under pressure to achieve and maintain an erection in front of other nude men, which is very difficult indeed and they're the ones who are nervous. But how many times have you had sex and just as you're getting going, you find your guy has cum, and its all over just as you're warming up? With a gangbang this does not happen because as soon as you've exhausted one man, the next is ready for you. Once you are relaxed, you should be able to achieve multiple orgasms from multiple penetrations. But traditional relationships, restraint by religion, marriage and faithfulness means that many women never get the opportunity to try this as you never dare ask, or aren't with a man who will let you. Copulation with multiple males and a single female often occurs in the natural world, with many types of animals, and I've lost track of the the number of times I've seen this on nature programmes! I have had several girls along who had never done a gangbang, and come midnight they were actually asking the men not to leave, and virtually dragged them back from the door! They wanted twice as many men at the next party - from 15 men, to 30! By the end, the only regret they had was that they'd never done one before, because no man had wanted to share them in this way. You will not need any stimulants, so please do not bring any drugs or take any beforehand, and drink only what you might need to remove initial inhibitions, rather than getting drunk and then not be able to enjoy it. You have a responsibility to the guys who have paid to be with you and driven miles.   

Q.6
I'm free next weekend/When do you want me?
A. Whilst I'm flattered by people's enthusiasm, I also have to guard against timewasters. I once organised a party for a a girl who clearly had no intention of turning up, not only ruining my entire weekend away at the castle in Kent, and wasting a whole evening for all those guys who had driven across England to meet her, but also wasting three weeks of my time in organising it! This resulted in all those new members never returning (who thought I was a scam) when I had to turn them away, and it took several months to resolve after issuing refunds, or holding money over for subsequent parties. I never heard from her for weeks, and when finally I got to speak to her again on the phone, she claimed she knew nothing about it!! Therefore I now meet the person once, to establish that we both like the arrangement and each other, over coffee. Coffee is not a euphemism for sex lol. Its coffee, full discussion of your skills, what you can offer and how it will run. I cannot run the risk of spending the time it takes to put on a party for someone I've not met, who could turn out to be a fake come the day. I sometimes get girls online asking me to put up their photos, just so that they can get a kick out of wanting to know how many men are interested, and expecting me to then organise a party without any assurance from them that they are genuine. I need to talk to you on the phone and meet once. I'm not a timewaster and I have to make sure you are genuine too. After all, I am spending my time to put on a party for your pleasure and financial benefit. I also don't send money in advance for your train fare, but your travel costs are paid for when you come to do the party. 

Q.7 I don't want people/my friends to know I'm doing the party.
A. I do not send out your photograph on the mass email invitations, but I do need to display a current photograph of you in the 'Picture Gallery' tab so that the guys know who is attending. Your photographs are only put up there after we have met and discussed a date, not before. I am very discreet. I am happy to shade your eyes in the photograph, or even your full face as I can then give assurances to the guys that you are attractive, if they cannot see your features fully. If anonymity is crucial, I also suggest that you use a different name that you wish to be known by and I would change your age too. The images can be removed after the party, though I would like to display one, to prove to people that the event took place. I have to be transparent and it helps to have a back catalogue of previous people. This website does not receive a lot of hits compared to other adult websites as I deliberately do not link myself in to other websites (though I give links to others, for your benefit), and remain independent. Plus, your images are tucked inside the Picture Gallery, not displayed prominently on the Home Page at the time of the party. I deliberately keep the main body of this website plain, with just the text, devoid of pop ups, flashing images and lurid photographs. This again means that you are shielded from the casual browser who will not easily come across your pictures.

Q.8 I do not want to be paid any money. I am not a whore!
A. If you prefer a free for all with a group of men who could bring along a variety of STD's and being treated as a worthless whore by someone that does not care about you, then fine, go dogging, but please do not bother me. However, I have found the best way to structure these parties is to do it this way. If I charged nothing, anyone can come. If I let people in off the street on the day, anyone can come. By making the parties only open to those who can follow the rules, book and pay in advance, this ensures a good standard of guest for yourself, me and all the guys in attendance. You cannot just have unknowns in off the street, coming along for free. I charge for many reasons, one of which is for your safety! It means I know in advance who is coming, and how many and it is also how I am able to pay your travel costs. The money covers my time for the 3 weeks and 1000 emails it takes to put the party on. They are very time consuming and the reason why I'm the only club like this. Only an idiot would work for nothing for 3 weeks, open up their house to have strangers come in and use their facilities and give away their food and drink for free! If I did not charge, I would end up several hundred pounds out of pocket each time. If I asked you to work for me for nothing, would you? In the past I lost money doing these and I have no intention of continuing that! If you do not wish to be paid anything, then I lower the price of admittance, but I still have overheads to cover - heating, lighting, water and the rates. Plus running costs of candles, incense, painstakingly collected props, pictures professionally framed, mobile phone, Internet bills, website costs and admin and the sheer amount of time taken to trace reliable, friendly girls and guys. I pay travel costs as train/petrol to London is not cheap. You may certainly donate some money to a charity of your choice, if you would prefer that. You've no need to take the moral high ground, so don't look a gift horse in the mouth if the money helps you get out of debt, buys you study books, pays bills, buys your family all their Christmas presents, gets you driving lessons or helps towards a new car.

Q.9 I come to your house? Why no high street club or hotel room?
A. I don't generally do what other people do, and this is no exception. I've been to a few hotel parties, and nice as they were, I didn't want to have something so anonymous, no matter how good the hotel. It also limits the number of attendees, and you have to be very careful that you're not thrown out. I don't like the idea of someone else controlling what I do, and us all having to skulk about the corridors like we're children doing something naughty. If these parties took place at a high street venue, I would probably be closed down within a week because the UK general public are often prudes and can't manage it and this is not Amsterdam. An adult shop opened near me but endured no end of hostilities from the locals.
Its not the building after all, but the person that organises it. You come as our guest and my friend for the weekend and are given food, drink, you may shower and there's a very comfortable four poster bed, and you can leave whenever you wish the next day after breakfast. At a high street venue, you stand a very real chance of being tipped out at closing time and left to fend for yourself afterwards; with you not knowing how to get home, where you are to sleep or going home with someone you don't know. I look after you far better than that!